This is a great quote that I have been using on my blog, because I want to encourage your own self-awareness. I want to encourage you to look at the small things that make you feel bad. I want to encourage you to think about how you are acting as if what you are doing isn’t really how you feel.
The thing is that we all feel bad when we do something that we know is wrong. So, if you believe you are not doing something that is wrong, you are just ignoring what you are feeling. But if you are doing something that you know is wrong, you are choosing to ignore it.
One of the issues I’ve run into with people who just assume they can’t be bad is that they are afraid to acknowledge the fact that they are at least a little bit bad. It’s okay to admit you are wrong. It’s even okay to admit you are actually bad at something, because you are bad at it. And it’s okay to admit that it is wrong.
This is the common mistake of “I didnt mean to hurt you, its just that I am a bad person.” But the truth is that you are not a bad person, you are just ignoring how you feel.
We’ve all been there. We have a friend who keeps making dumb decisions because of their own insecurity and fear. They are afraid to admit they are wrong, so instead they are making excuses for the badness in their own lives. And this is a perfect example of this. Because if we can admit we are bad at something, then we can get better at that thing. If we can admit we suck at something, then we can get better at it.
Bob Biswas is our friend. He has a problem. He is afraid of admitting it to himself, because the fear of being wrong means that we fear him too. And so they have made the choice to ignore how they feel. We can’t really blame Bob because he is the one making the choice in the first place. He is the one who has made the decision to have a bad day. He has made the decision to ignore how he feels.
Bob is a real person and we can relate to him in so many ways. I think he’s great for the purpose of this entry, but I’m also really glad that we have a friend to turn to for advice.
Bob was a good friend of mine. I had seen him in the flesh (in person!) many times at conventions (which is where I met him) and he was always such a good guy. He was also a very intelligent guy who had the ability to talk to you in a way you had never really seen before. We talked about so many things that we would have liked to have talked about that way.
Bob was a great example of someone who we met who had it all and who still had it all, but who, for whatever reason, had no desire to have it all for himself. He was a very intelligent guy who had a lot of different interests. He liked to play a lot of video games, but his particular interests were more in the world of TV. He did have a passion for comic strips and animation and was a huge fan of Star Wars.
Bob’s desire to have everything was a conscious choice on his part. He has said he would like to have gone back in time to when he was a kid and just to have done everything differently, like having all his interests (and his interests alone) before starting school that day.
