Here’s a video that makes me think about the differences between men and women and is a great example of the difference between self-awareness and self-absorption.
Gay craigslist videos are the kind of videos that make you want to go home, go to bed and watch porn right now. They’re the kind of videos that make you feel bad for yourself. They’re the kind of videos that make you want to just erase all of the bad thoughts and actions that you have done wrong.
You know what theyre not? Theyre not just videos of men doing gay porn and having sex with men. Theyre videos of men and women having sex with each other. And that is not a bad thing. It is a good thing.
The fact is, if you want to see people having sex with other men and women, you can just go to gay websites (or the equivalent in your area) and find gay men and women getting or giving each other some of the same. If you want to feel bad for yourself, you can do so by watching these videos. Theyre not dirty. Theyre not degrading.
To be perfectly honest, I have done my share of gay sex, and I have also watched some of these videos and felt them myself. But I am not going to say that gay sex is something that only exists in gay porn. Yes, it is a bad thing. Yes, it is a really bad thing that people can and should go to extreme lengths to keep it out of the public eye. But that doesn’t make it a bad thing, or it should not be a thing.
In a nutshell, when you use these gay craigslist videos or any other gay porn videos, you are perpetuating the same thing that the gay marriage movement tries to stop: the acceptance of a lifestyle. If you accept a lifestyle that has been the victim of prejudice, you are contributing to that prejudice. If you accept a lifestyle that is not a direct threat to other people, you are contributing to that threat.
If you want to find a gay escort or gay guy who’s a good guy, go look in the gay porn video store. If you want to find a gay hookup guy who’s a good guy, go look in the gay escort video store. If you want to find a gay person who’s not a bad person, go look in the gay hookup video store.
Even if you don’t believe everything you read on the internet and don’t want to get involved in your community, you have to accept that there are some people out there who will. I know I will, and I know how to handle it. But if you don’t, it’s still better to see what’s out there than to ignore it.
I’m not going to get into the politics of gay marriage but I will say it does appear to be a growing trend in our society. The biggest issue I see is that there is a lot of misinformation out there about gay people. The first time I heard gay people referred to as a “gay Illuminati” was in a book I read a long time ago. I remember thinking, wow, I’ve heard this before and it’s really scary. So I started looking into it.
Gay people have been around for a long time. I can point to several references to gay people and not being straight. In fact, I think I remember my first gay wedding was in the late 70s, which was before the internet. There are even references to gay adoption that I found online when researching my parents. In my experience, gay people are very accepting and respectful of their sexuality, and I think that is one of the reasons why they are so difficult to track down.
